In a historic and far-reaching decision, the U.S. Supreme Court officially reversed Roe v. Wade,
declaring that the constitutional right to abortion, upheld for nearly a half-century, no longer
exists. Writing for the court majority, Justice Samuel Alito said that the 1973 Roe ruling and
repeated subsequent high court decisions reaffirming Roe "must be overruled because they
were egregiously wrong, the arguments exceptionally weak and so damaging that they
amounted to an abuse of judicial authority". This decision will mean the court itself, as well as
the abortion question, will become a more significant battleground politically from now on.
We prayed outside of abortion clinics, attended right-to-life rallies, and debated the science
that life begins at conception. This reversal of Roe v. Wade is currently at a unique inflection
point in the history of reproductive rights, but it's too soon to measure the rise in babies born
to mothers who did not wish to have them. Many of these babies will be born in states that are
said to have already the worst maternal and child health outcomes in the nation. Although the
existence of these children is the goal of the anti-abortion movement, America is unprepared to
adequately care for them and the people who give birth to them. This means more and more
children will be put up for adoption, and the need for foster care will spike. It's time to put our
lives where our beliefs have been. We've been called out! Excuses and well-crafted
intellectualizing, while self-impressive, will only reinforce the hypocrisy we are accused of. We
must act, and it won't be easy coming from a faith-based perspective. What's the expression,
"Be careful what you pray for?"
It has been over 165 years since George Mueller took in his first orphan. His vision must
continue as faith-based initiatives around the U.S. are inspired by his faith to depend on God to
meet their needs and the needs of helpless children. George Mueller's life story is in a video
called "The Obstacle to Comfort."
Frankly, I'm very concerned. After nearly 30 years in para-church ministry outreach, I don't
believe we have enough authentic people committed to immovably living according to the
precepts of Christ and fueled by enough of His Grace who are willing to be inconvenienced and
live with an eternal view of life - even at a cost to themselves if need be.
On May 20, 2024, the fragility of life unfortunately hit our family. It was a beautiful sunny
Monday morning as my cousin was driving on a winding road, and a car crossing the dividing
lines was speeding and struck her head-on. She died an hour later in the emergency room of a
local hospital. An investigation followed, and the driver whose car struck Debbie was
determined to have been on their cell phone.
My cousin was an adopted child, a situation which she struggled with deeply until the day of
her death. I couldn't help profoundly grieving for her that when she was born, she was placed in
an orphanage alone and then died alone. In her adult years, she would find her birth mother;
however, when she spoke to her mother on the phone, her mother told her no one knew she
existed and asked that Debbie never call her again.
Some months back, our team was discussing what our missional/community service would look
like. As Romans 11:33 teaches, "How unsearchable are God's judgments and paths beyond racing out?"
In light of my personal experience coupled with the heated abortion issue,
I believe God has made our path straight.
As we launch The Country Club of Life Virtual Life and Golf Training Platform, we plan to solidify
a collaborative relationship with former Wendy's Founder's Dave Thomas Foundation.
The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption is dedicated to finding forever families for the more
than 140,000 children waiting to be adopted from foster care in the United States and Canada.
The Foundation works closely with child welfare advocates and policymakers, provides free
adoption journey resources, and raises awareness through social media, ad campaigns, public
service announcements, and events.
The following five key themes have emerged and become the bedrock of our work as we
advance.
1. Adoption Is Not a One-Time Transaction
It's a lifelong journey for the entire family. It is important to understand adoption as a
transformational experience that lasts a lifetime to encourage healthy identity development
and strong relationships.
2. A Human Rights Framework Is Needed
Adoption is in urgent need of a cultural shift; this shift requires us, first and foremost, to make
decisions in adoption through the lens of human rights and to practice adoption in a way that
primarily and fundamentally respects and upholds the humanity of all who are connected to
this rich and complex experience.
3. Market Forces Create a Variety of Concerns
It is critical to develop uniform standards and regulations to remove the influence of money as
it relates to the practice of adoption. CHILDREN ARE NOT COMMODITIES.
4. Adoption in America Lacks Uniformity
Adoption policies and practices vary widely by state and type of adoption. The consequence of
these inconsistencies can lead to fraud, coercion, and undue stress on families and ultimately
leave children vulnerable.
5. No Reform Without Education
One of the most significant impediments to meaningful reforms in adoption and foster care are
the societal misperceptions and general lack of knowledge surrounding this experience. We
must foster understanding in society and the systems that serve families if changes need to be
made.
Bringing a child into a family—whether by birth, adoption or the blending of families—is life-
changing for everyone. Adoption can represent an evolved definition of family when we
recognize the lifelong impact and put children at the center. Strong families build strong
communities, which make a better world for all of us. While we have reached many milestones,
more work needs to be done, and today, our work feels more urgent than ever.
While the typical genetics may not be present in adopted families, lives connected through
the life-saving blood of Jesus Christ is a royal lineage given to us.
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